Why Do You Love Me When I Refuse Your Request?

Author Herbert Barker

Posted Dec 19, 2022

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Mountains above clouds

When I refuse your request, it shows me how much you truly care. It's clear that you're making sure I'm as safe as possible and that my well-being is your number one priority. You could just give in to every demand and make life easier for yourself, but you take the responsible route and stick to your guns in order to protect me. That's why I love you when you refuse my request - because it solidifies how deep your love runs and how important it is for us both.

Why do you continue to show me kindness despite my reluctance?

Showing kindness is often not a direct response to someone's behavior - it’s an innate instinct that we have to be compassionate and generous, especially when faced with difficult situations. So why do I continue to show you kindness despite your reluctance? Simply put, because I know that kindness pays off.

By expressing my compassion and care for you, I'm doing more than just being nice - I'm showing you respect and acknowledging your feelings. Kindness leaves room for understanding and healthy communication. It helps create the safe space necessary for the possibility of our relationship blossoming into something deeper. Kindness has its own rewards; it can strengthen relationships in unimaginable ways and even lead to unexpected turns down new paths previously unseen.

But most importantly, by showing you kindness in spite of your reluctance, I'm demonstrating warmth and love that can help disarm any defenses or walls that may exist between us immediately or in the future. If someone has seeded doubt into our relationship due to their own actions or words, then letting go of our grievances through understanding can go a long way towards bettering things for both of us in the long run!

There is no greater gift than sincerity through thoughtful action; despite any initial reluctance indicated by either side – this small gesture could be all it takes to build a bridge over troubled waters with patience, understanding and positive intentions at hand!

Why do you remain devoted to me despite my rejections?

No matter how many times you reject me, I remain devoted to you because of our shared history and all that we've been through together. We've been in each other's lives for so long and have known each other since way back when. You have seen me through the best of times, and the worst of times; no matter what happens, I'm always here for you.

What makes this bond even stronger is that it goes beyond my feelings for you; it’s more than just love or infatuation. Your friendship has become essential to my life — I feel safe sharing things with you and can be vulnerable knowing that no matter what happens, your gentleness will remain constant.

Also, despite your rejections towards me, we still maintain a certain level of trust between us — something that cannot be neglected or taken advantage of. Our mutual understanding allows us both to say things without fear of judgement or being reprimanded; it’s almost as if we were two children playing in a sandbox together again without worry about how either one may judge the other’s actions.

At the end of the day, our bond is something special — even if one night may conclude with rejection from one side or another — because there is a pillar underneath holding us up and keeping our devotion alive in the face of disappointment and adversity alike. No matter what happens with current circumstances or events that arise later on down the line: My devotion towards will forever remain unaltered.

Why do you persist in caring for me even when I refuse your requests?

Caring for someone isn't always easy, especially when someone refuses our requests. But despite the rebuffs and challenges, I persist in caring for you because I understand that at some point you are going to need my help and support. Everyone has difficult times; moments when we can't do things on our own or don’t have the emotion or motivation to try. In these moments, having someone who genuinely cares can make all the difference.

I care about you too much to stop trying just because you refuse my requests occasionally. I recognize that your refusal may simply mean that something isn’t right in your life at this very moment. It doesn’t mean that it won’t change with time and patience—and a good friend willing to persist even when they are being refused will be there when it does change for the better. That is why it is so important not just to give up every time we might be refused but instead take whatever positives there might be from each situation and use those successes as encouragement while continuing to nurture a caring relationship throughout whatever rough patches might arise in our friendship in future.

Most of all, though, I persist in caring for you because sometimes life leads us down paths where no one else will stand by us—except those closest friends who never give up even when others have gone away a long time ago. When things look bleakest, these people remain as loyal companions until we eventually find what we needed most along: renewed strength and direction from within ourselves to carry on with purpose once again!

Why do you stay loyal to me although I don't reciprocate?

It can be easy to feel hurt and resentful when there isn't mutual loyalty in a relationship. But I stay loyal to you for several reasons.

First, I understand that relationships are unique and not everyone has the same capacity or is able to display loyalty in the same way. You may not realize it, but it means a lot to me when you reach out even though you don’t always reciprocate my advances completely. This shows me that on some level, you appreciate our connection and care about me as well.

Second, staying loyal to you also helps remind me of the bigger picture—that no one person is perfect, including myself. And though sometimes I wish things were different between us and I could express my feelings more freely, it doesn’t mean that our friendship isn’t important or worthwhile. Through this relationship, both of us can grow and learn how to better express ourselves in future relationships with others efficiently and effectively.

Lastly, expressing loyalty towards someone can be very empowering; putting aside feelings of neglect or unreciprocation can bring us both closer together through understanding while teaching us resilience at the same time! It allows both parties involved in the relationship to take a step back from their struggles while still valuing one another’s presences in their lives vehemently​. Ultimately being able to do this reinforces trust between individuals inherently making them an unbreakable unit!

How can you still be supportive of me even when I reject you?

Being rejected by someone you care about can be heartbreaking and emotionally trying, but that doesn’t mean your relationship with the person has to suffer. It’s possible to still be supportive of a person even when they have turned away your advances or gestures of affection, if you are mindful in how you express your support and understanding.

One way to still show support is through genuine conversation. You don’t necessarily need to talk about why they rejects you but rather make it known that feel heard and supported. Initiate conversations not from an angle of pressure or criticism but from an angle of understanding. Showing interest in their thoughts, feelings and activities can go a long way in developing trust which will ultimately create a bond more substantial than any romantic relationship could do alone.

Open communication is also key for ensuring that things don't become overwhelming for either side. If needed, let them set boundaries around how often and why spoken contact should occur so that both parties feel respected and appreciated moving forward as friends or just acquaintances. Furthermore, give them space when asked – physical distance may actually facilitates healthier relationships as it gives both parties time needed away from the situation while respecting each other's wishes regarding frequency and topics discussed between times spent together again—albeit strictly platonic!

Finally, let them know they have value beyond what their romantic status conveys at each meeting - compliment on their successes outside of love life (academic achievements, work milestones etc.) as well informing them on future events where they could attend whether its theatres plays or shopping events; This will remind them just how much care is put into honouring their presence without placing emphasis solely on rejected romantic attempts past present existent!

Why do you still remain fond of me after I reject your offer?

I reject your offer and yet I continue to feel fond of you for many reasons, but perhaps the biggest one is that I can tell you truly care about building a meaningful connection with me. Despite your rejection, it’s evident that you have taken the time to consider my offer and thoughtfully evaluate it - which in turn shows me how important I am to you. You respect my opinion enough to review my proposal even though we ultimately come away with different conclusions. That speaks volumes about our relationship.

Furthermore, it demonstrates our ability to have an open conversation about anything - regardless of what route we decide to take afterwards. Your willingness to engage in dialogue at times like this gives me comfort and reassures me that there is something special between us because relationships are built on both disagreeing and agreeing.

Ultimately, I remain fond of you because of the devotion and kindness you show even when we don't see eye-to-eye on something important like this offer - which means more than any materialistic thing could ever mean in the grand scheme of things!

Herbert Barker

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